Opinions&Smileys.

Apr 1 / sbroady

Facebook Ranting!

Those girls who are constantly complaining about guys and how they got ‘screwed over’ and how ‘they’re all the same’. No. You’re just hanging out with low life teenage males with no ambition in life except to ‘roll one, smoke one and ‘have fun” and have cheated on all past girlfriends. You knew what you were getting into, higher your standards, not your skirts.
^^^^^^^

Wow! A post on Facebook which greatly offends me.

Please can you be any more wrong! I have been screwed over by every guy I have known. Let’s list some of the “low life” I have been screwed over by.

21 Male in process of owning his first house, works 6 days a week.

22 Male graduated from Bachelor of Psych Science & Exercise Science

22 Male works 6 days a week for an energy company while studying more

21 Male in the Royal Australian Navy

So please try and tell me that all of them are low lives, yes I have been with a few that aren’t worth mentioning. Except don’t you dare tell me that I’m a slut because I get screwed over. Or that I am hanging with the low life. I have a right to complain because the boys I do seem to hang out with do seem to be lovely, nice and want to be with me and have no significant past history. Stupid dumb Facebook chick, how old are you 16? Think you have seen it all because you are in a “committed relationship” not everything is black and white for everybody. Looking back on all the hurt, all the broken promises, all the no I am a nice guy. I wouldn’t change anything!

Jan 6 / sbroady

Tonight…isn’t so great.

I deleted my Facebook tonight. That is it I am through with that.
I realised yes I had these amazing friends, who would like my photos or comment on my status. Except where are those friends when I need them? I am not in any desperate need, I am not going to kill myself or anything. But you know every now and then it is nice to get a little text that says hey! what’s up? would you like to do this…
I do get those messages, and when I do I love it! That person has gone out of their way to think about me. I also understand, everyone is busy. Everyone is stressed and has their own worries. I also understand for most people boyfriends and work come first. Please don’t think I’m a terrible person. But me pushing and pushing and pushing and pushing and pushing and pushing to make plans with you should appear as a desperate cry of attention! Hey you! Come hang out with me! I just fear that I may be doing something wrong. I have talked about in my other posts about how people only post the best parts of their lives on Facebook and such. But it gets me a bit down. I would for once like to have the big group of friends the giant smiles. I have the cute outfits! It just disappoints me that I had one offer for NYE. I know it’s stupid to pin point one specific time. But I just wanted to be around my friends, not alone again. I am just searching for where I belong. I don’t fit in on Facebook. I don’t fit in on Tumblr. I’m not a drinker. I’m not a nerd. I just don’t know where I fit in. Maybe I don’t know how to make friends. I’m just not good at all this stuff I spose.

All I have ever wanted is lots of friends to hang out with.
Well until then, blogging it is.

Nov 10 / sbroady

I wish..

I wish I was what males considered ugly, or blockish or something that would make them look at me and go I will forever be her friend but nothing more. I am not trying to say I am some hot bitch that males want to have so much to do with, but 90% of the males I interact with are only in to me for sex. When they don’t get what they want they tell me I’m in love with them, (don’t tell me how to feel you ugly bastard!). All I have ever wanted is to be one of the boys. Like it has been nearly every day of my life until boys started thinking with their other head.

I am sure that there are millions of other girls willing to have sex with you, so why must you ruin our friendship. Why can’t we just be friends. Why can’t I hang out like one of the boys without you thinking I’m in fucking love with you or that you can get your penis out and start touching me with it.

You don’t realise how hurtful it is.
I don’t want to have sex with you. I’m not in love with you. I want to play xbox & drink beers & run around at the beach. I want to yell at the footy & shoot hoops. I want to be your friend! Nothing more. I am being honest, there is no other ulteria motive. I’m not trying to be so blockish that you think it’s cute and fall in love with me. I am just trying to be me, have fun & meet new people. But when you kiss me, what is my natural reaction going to be? I haven’t been in a relationship for nearly 3 years so it’s my bodies natural response to go oh hello & kiss you back. It doesn’t mean you have any right to ruin a perfectly fine friendship because you haven’t gotten laid in some time. I’m not that girl. I’m not the girl who falls in love & wants babies. I am not the girl who you can use. I’m your best mate! I’m the one you call at three in the morning because your drunk & can’t walk home.

So treat me with a bit of respect. Be my mate & don’t assume I’m in love with you.

For a bunch of grown up boys you sure act really immature.

Oct 10 / sbroady

Tumblr.

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Oct 9 / sbroady

I don’t know & I don’t know how to know.

How do we know what we are experiencing is love?
Is my ability to move on so quickly from “relationships” a positive. Or am I just not in love.
What if you are with someone think it is love but it’s actually not love. What is love, what does it feel like?
How do we know when it happens, will we know. How do you know you want to spend forever with that person, what if you don’t? If we don’t know what love is how do we know when it is happening. How do you know that you are with that person & it just isn’t lust. What clicks & says I love this person.
Where does the I love you come from.

Oh dear.

Sep 30 / sbroady

EITHER BE TOGETHER OR NOT.

Love should NOT be hard work.
If you have to argue about every little thing. If you do not have the ability to simply talk to each other, DON’T BE TOGETHER.
If you have to yell and scream about things to be heard. If you do not have the ability to simply listen to each other, DON’T BE TOGETHER.
If you can not trust your partner. If you do not have the ability to simply believe what they do or say, DON’T BE TOGETHER.

If you do not know your partner. If you do not have the ability to understand their feelings, DON’T BE TOGETHER.
If you both can’t have fun. If you do not have the ability to be happy & free, DON’T BE TOGETHER.
If you have to put in large amounts of effort. If you have to work to make it work, DON”T BE TOGETHER.

If you have to change everything about yourself. If you don’t have the ability to accept them for them, DON’T BE TOGETHER.

If a relationship is such hard work. If you can’t muck around and have fun. Then why the hell are you together. Why are you ruining life for everyone else? Why whinge about it on Facebook. If you have to fight argue and cheat. Then let them go, maybe they will find someone who they truly love. Don’t bring children into a heartless relationship. Don’t tell me you address everything when you don’t listen to each other you fuck-wits. Stop making everything so damn difficult on everyone else because you can’t get your shit together. Relationships aren’t hard, it’s all the shit that you do to each other that make it hard.

STOP CHEATING.
STOP YELLING.

STOP LYING.
STOP BEING COMPLETE LOSERS & EITHER BE TOGETHER OR NOT.

Sep 25 / sbroady

I know.

Deep down I know, when it comes time for you to leave.
I’m going to turn to you & tell you just how much I do like you.

Aug 29 / sbroady

My list.

28. Find a field of sunflowers, run through them.

27. Learn to trust those closest to me.

26. Find someone who will never lie or hurt me.

25. Have a night of flower petals & candles

24. Be able to fly.

23. Have my favourite song sung to me.

22.Witness a miracle.

21. Camp under the stars.

20. Be friend someone you don’t like.

19. Have someone on valentines day to make them a nerdy card.

18. Finish uni all the way

17. Have a garden with a million colours.

16. Work in Africa.

15. Receive flowers just because.

14. Own a library full of every book I’ve ever read.

13. Learn how to star gaze.

12. Appreciate all the beauty in the world.

11. Be asked to dance.

10. Have the ability to be kind, strong & positive all the time.

9. Feel the power of love.

8. Find a new talent.

7. Decorate a whole house the way I want.

6. Change someones life forever.

5. See the world.

4. Live life happily.

3. Be who I want to be.

2. Hear someone say “I Love You” & mean it.

1. If I told you, I’d have to kill you.

Aug 26 / sbroady

It is so sad,

when people believe that death is the easier option.
That when they needed help the most, the had no one to turn to.

Aug 13 / sbroady

Oh, hi.

Oh, you’re a liar?

Let me introduce myself. I am Shannon, I am a nice person. I am going to believe every little thing you say because I think that people are open & honest like myself. Please take advantage of everything I am willing to do for you because I really like feeling used. Let me believe that you to are a nice person who is going to do everything that I would do for you for me. Go a head and let me choose to see all the horrible things you do, but then believe the stupid story that you run when you notice me noticing.
It is ok pretend to be my friend when really you have no intentions of calling me back. Seriously walk all over me, because my life is super easy and some times I need something really rough to wake me up.

Cheers.